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The Diamond Heart Sisterhood is an organization that brings together women involved in the Leather, BDSM, Kink, Fetish, Power Exchange and Alternative Lifestyles. Working together we collaborate to provide an atmosphere of support through education, service and community
DHS fosters camaraderie, confidence, safety, mentorship and education. We do this through a variety of networking and socials, community services, activities and attendance at Lifestyle events and topical programming. DHS has both a physical and an online presence across the U.S.
DHS does not discriminate and accepts all who identify as women including CIS, trans, NB and all orientations.
Diamonds are one of the strongest substances found in nature, practically indestructible, but at the same time they are stunning and admired for their beauty. Members of DHS are like a diamond – strong, each unique, brilliant and beautiful. With the support of our Diamond Heart Sisterhood we can all shine bright like diamonds!
President - Meredith Diamond
Vice President 1 - Sarah Navarrete
Vice President 2 - Bella Esclave
Secretary - Kayle Love
Treasurer - vacant (temp Meredith Diamond)
Sergeant At Arms - Jess Matz
As the elected officials of the Diamond Heart Sisterhood, the Board of Directors takes pride in our positions. We work hard to provide good administration with organizational transparency. The Board is united in our belief that every DHS member, prospect and friend should have access not only to us, but to all our policies on which the organization was built. It is our hope that as we expand, not only will our members be better informed about how DHS runs, but that you'll be inspired to help us make it even better.
For a copy of all our governing documents contact DiamondHeartSisterhood@gmail.com
The following items can be made available:
- Code of Conduct
- Forms (including Reduction/Waiver of Dues and Charitable Request forms)
- Financial Statements
All DHS Committees are comprised entirely of volunteer members. We do not receive any salary or gifts for the positions held within the organization. As such we ask everyone to contribute in some way, big or small, no matter if it is once or ongoing. Your assistance is greatly appreciated!
Marketing & PR
Ad Hoc as Needed
Will you be attending any of the upcoming kink cons? If so, look for us there! DHS sponsors and contributes to many nationwide events and conventions:
Master/slave Conference (MTTA)
Other local and national events
2nd Tuesday of each month on zoom starting at 8pm
TEA TUESDAYS ~
This informal online gathering is open to all women and female identifying persons, DHS members and friends, and on occasion will host special guests with specific topics. Male identifying persons may join only when invited. Otherwise it's ladies night!
Grab a drink and a snack and join us on zoom - you do NOT need to be a member of DHS to attend this monthly event
RSVP for Zoom link and Passcode
Monday, August 22 at 8pm
Join the Diamond Heart Sisterhood for an ONLINE class regarding basic BDSM and alternative lifestyles. We will cover everything from acronyms to the differences between kink and Authority Exchange
RSVP required for Zoom link and Passcode
Or email DiamondHeartSisterhood@gmail
Look for the Diamond Heart Sisterhood as we proudly SPONSOR the 2022 Master slave Conference in Washington, D.C.
The Diamond Heart Sisterhood invites all our female-identifying friends to join us at the Master/slave Conference in Washington, D.C. for a “Diamonds & Decadence” gathering in the Hospitality Suite on Sunday, September 4th from 5:30 - 7:00.
Meet the women of DHS and enjoy some decadent chocolates.
DHS is open to all women, CIS, NB, GF and Trans folx who are female presenting
JULY 3, 2022
Come Meet The Diamond Heart Sisterhood at TES Fest!
Attending TES FEST this year? Come to our “Meet & Greet’ at TES Fest on Sunday, July 3rd (location and time TBA)
***** STOP BY FOR A CHANCE TO WIN KINKY PRIZES AND PERVERTIBLES *****
Refreshments and snacks provided
This class takes a deep dive into a variety of BDSM toys, stingy vs thuddy and the benefit of adding toys to your scenes. Our instructor will focus on how toys are used in kink or for sexual activity. We will look at several products ranging from bondage materials to sensation toys to impact items and more. We will discuss the benefits of knowing products, what they do, how they feel and what materials they’re made from in order to make informed purchases when adding to your collection. There will be a section addressing costs, health and safety concerns and risks involved in using toys. Our instructor will use her vast retail experience to show the fun things people now have access to like remote control devices and even kinky games to play, then answer questions on where to find the best products
May 15-22 - West Palm Beach, FL
Look for the DHS gift basket full of fun and kinky items to be auctioned at Beyond Leather 2022
April 15-17 - Austin, TX
The Diamond Heart Sisterhood is proud to be a sponsor of this years Leather Pride in Texas. You can find our banner on the Leather Pride Texas website and in person at this convention
Sunday, April 24 at 11am
Northeast ladies, come meet us for Brunch! ☕️🍳🥯🥐🥓🥞🍉
DHS is having a get together for Brunch on Sunday, April 24 in Long Island, NY
If you are in the NY/NJ/CT/PA areas or will be visiting and would like to join us please let us know so we can plan accordingly. Carpooling and shared stays for anyone coming overnight is highly encouraged. Mass transit on the LIRR is to Farmingdale.
Restaurant: The Refuge, Melville, NY
* Headcount needed by April 17
February 21, 2022 at 8pm
This online class is focused on self love and meditation practice and its benefits. Class will include: Breathing Exercise, Body Connection Activity, Self Love Discussion, Fun Game, Guided Group Meditation.
Conducted by Kayle Love whose background is in guided meditation, massage therapy, energy work, & reiki. She has been in this field for over 5 years.
This class is open to all DHS Members and friends, the more the merrier! Contact DHS for link to this presentation
Join DHS for a casual and fun game night. We are setting aside two hours on Friday for self care through games. This space is safe for all women.
We will enjoy a fun kinky quiz and play Fetish Bingo, followed by a question and answer session.
Ice breaker: What animal represents the way you express your feminine energy?
✨Social time before and after✨
Contact us at DiamondHeartSisterhood@gmail.com for more information
November 11, 2021 at 8pm
“BDSM & The Law” a discussion with Irish Gentleman, retired NYPD SVU Sergeant.
Overview: How do you commit kink in public? What laws should you be aware of? What are the laws concerning impact play in your home? And should you answer the door in leather when the police come knocking? These burning questions and more will be answered when you join us for some kinky cop talk. We’ll explore the good, the bad, and the indecent parts of the law!. Q&A following the presentation.
Irish Gentleman is a retired NYPD Sergeant who was the Commanding Officer of one of the elite Special Victims Squads in New York City. He’s also an active member of the kink community
August 20, 2021 at 9pm
DHS is thrilled to offer this virtual opportunity to empower our S/sisters, friends and associates.
"Sexual Freedom" presented by Daddys Cupcake will discuss overcoming insecurities in the bedroom with an open, honest discussion about human sexuality, not feeling ashamed and exploring our wants and desires. Intimate topical questions encouraged.
You MUST register in advance for this presentation. Click here to pre-register:
After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the meeting
This Presentation is open to Members, Prospects, and Friends of DHS. If you would like to invite a friend please be sure they register in advance as well.
Step 1: Prospective members must first have a current S/sister agree to be their sponsor who will submit a letter of recommendation for that prospect due by the last day of each month.
Step 2: Prospective members must submit a letter of interest for membership including but not limited to their time and any involvement in the community, their information (including FetLife profile name), what you do or would like to do to empower women (kink or vanilla), what attracted you to the Diamond Heart Sisterhood, and what you feel you can offer as a member. Prospect letters are also due by the last day of each month.
Step 3: After the Sisterhood receives both letters, all active members will be provided with a copy to review and will have the chance to voice any concerns until the 7th of each month. All concerns will be thoroughly investigated by the Sergeant At Arms and presented to the Board. The Board reserves the right to handle any situation as they see fit however attempts at a resolution and healing will be made in all cases. If mediation becomes necessary, it will be spearheaded by the Sergeant At Arms.
Personal letters of recommendation may be requested to support any prospects
Step 4: Barring any concerns, or after a resolution of any concerns is reached, the prospect and their sponsor will be invited to a required online interview. This interview is an opportunity to apprise you on the Sisterhood, to learn more about you and to hear from your sponsor why they feel you would make a good addition to DHS.
Step 5: After the interview the Board will review and vote upon inviting you to the Diamond Heart Sisterhood. Your sponsor and you will be notified of the decision.
Step 6: If admitted you will be sent a copy of the Bylaws to be signed and returned within 1 week along with your Initial dues. Upon receipt of both your signed Bylaws and initial dues you are officially a Diamond Heart S/sister and you will be added to any of the avenues that DHS has which you request (a private S/sisters only Facebook group, our FetLife pages, events, any documents listing what state you live in, other DHS teams and committees you choose, our electronic mailing list, etc.). Initial dues are $40 and $20 each subsequent year thereafter. Fully vetted and initiated members will receive their DHS patch.
All new S/sisters are required to participate in an information meeting conducted by the Sergeant At Arms.
WE HOPE YOU ARE ENJOYING LEARNING MORE ABOUT DHS AND WE LOOK FORWARD TO WELCOMING ALL MEMBERS AND SUPPORTERS
DHS welcomes our friends, allies and supporters who don't normally qualify for full membership, or for those who want to support the organization in an auxiliary way. Supporter membership allows males and non-lifestyle persons such as vanilla spouses to join and show their encouragement. Supporter members will have access to many DHS events and presentations but may not attend general meetings unless invited and have no voting rights. Supporter members will receive a patch or pin to show their alliance. Supporter dues structure is half of members, i.e., $20 initial dues and $10 annual dues
We love to meet new friends! Feel free to contact us and find out how you can become a fully vetted member of DHS
DHS currently is a U.S. based organization and therefore accepts members from any state or district. At this time we are U.S. based only.
Yes, due to the nature of the group all prospects must be age 21 or older
Once a fully vetted member has joined there is a requirement to attend a minimum of two (2) DHS events per year which include meetings, presentations and events, and submit annual dues
General Member Meetings are held online the second Sunday of each month unless otherwise noted. The Board of Directors meets once per quarter. Committees meet as needed
Although DHS is a Leather group, we do not require anyone identify as such to join
Yes! DHS welcomes non-binary, gender fluid and transitioning folx. If you are female facing when representing DHS we are happy to have you apply. We also have a Supporter Membership level for males and others who want to show their support